Why Do Women Always Cry?

A little boy asked his mother ' Why are you crying?'

'Because I'm a woman,' she told him.

'I don't understand', he said.

His mum just hugged him and said, 'And you never will'

Later the little boy asked his father,
'Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?'

'All women cry for no reason,' was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man,
still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God:
and when God got on the phone,
he asked, 'God, why do women cry so easily?!'

God said:'When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world;
yet, gentle enough to give comfort.'

'I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and
the rejection that many times comes from her children.'

'I gave her an a hardness that allows
her to keep going when everyone else gives up.
And take care of her family through sickness
and fatigue without complaining.'

'I gave her the sinsitivity to love her children under any
and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.'

'I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults
and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.'

'I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife,
but sometimes tests her strengths
and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.'

'And finally, I gave her a tear to shed.
This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.'

'You see: The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.'

'The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes,
because that is the doorway to her heart
*the place where love resides.'

Every Woman is Beautiful.

生活

伯拉圖問蘇格拉底什麼是生活。蘇格拉底叫他到樹林走一次，可以來回走，在途中要取一支最好看的花。伯拉圖摘了最美的花，欢天喜地的回去。可是能给蘇格拉底的只是一朵枯萎的花朵。

伯拉圖問蘇格拉底又问什麼是生活。
蘇格拉底還是叫他到樹林走一次，可以來回走，在途中要取一支最好看的花。
伯拉圖有了以前的教訓，又充滿信心地出去。
過了三天三夜，他也沒有回來。
蘇格拉底只好走進樹林裏去找他，最後發現伯拉圖已經在樹林裏安營紮寨。
蘇格拉底問他：“你找著最好看的花了麼？”
伯拉圖指著邊上地一朵花說：“這就是最好看的花。”
蘇格拉底問：“為什麼不把它帶出去呢？”
伯拉圖回答老師：“我如果把它摘下來，它馬上就會枯萎。即使我不摘它，它也遲早會枯萎。所以我就在它還盛開的時候，住在它邊上。等它凋謝的時候，再找下一朵，這已經是我找著的第二朵最好看的花。”
這時，蘇格拉底告訴它：“你已經懂得生活的真諦了。”

你懂得了么？

如果说再见就别渴望再见面。。

有一种说法 “开始的时候说开始，结束的时候说结束”, 没想到可以用在爱情里。可怜的是世人都没有很多智慧。 没能力去察觉什么时候是游戏的开始，什么时候结束。 不懂得怎么处理失控的情绪，也忘了在给于和接收的时候双方原本就没有为爱情设下期限。因为如此往往误了实际，破坏了感觉， 留些遗憾，刻下伤痕。

有时候，我们可能碰到 爱人不明不白的离开，有时可能翻脸不认人，开始语气冷淡，一副无所谓的样子。或是避不见面，不接电话。有些情场高手还会说：让我们做朋友吧！因为朋友才会是一辈子的。

当初爱得如痴如狂，认为自己终于找到最真挚的爱情，然而对方的眼神开始没有渴盼，连解释都懒得说得圆满。与你见面时, 显出筋疲力尽，老是睡不够, 连多看一眼都多余。等你筋疲力尽时，不想耗下去时，偏偏又开始浓情蜜意，恨不得你就在身边。你搞不懂自己的位置在哪里? 你成了随时候补的备胎情人。捉在手中的风筝慢慢的脱线，你越是死尽的握着，手中的线就割的越深，伤的越重。你的眼泪取代了欢愉，愤怒与拙折替代了原来的幸福感觉。

我们往往都会一厢情愿的相信着自己的感觉，期待对方有着同样的情怀。用一把天平撤量他与她的的回报是否平衡我们的付出。 多了就沾沾自喜，一定是自己得天独厚，人中之龙。 少了就怨天尤人， 对反一定是不知好歹，瞎了狗眼。谈爱恋是需要智慧的，那么开始与结束的时候才不会不知所措。 分手可以是学习成长的过程，可以是离开而非老死不相往来，可以是改变关系而不是生命里的遗憾。不管是美好的或是残缺的，请不要忘记了俩个人哪一霎那都真的爱过一回， 那一霎那都用了心.

结束一段爱情可以是把快乐的主权交回在自己手里，感谢可以有机会更了解自己；体验一段爱与被爱的过程；更难的是可以更懂得爱自己，学会不再靠别人滋养我们的生命

Sleepy Day!

I'm so sleepy...

I wish I can go home now..

I wish I can go to my bed now..

I wish I can sleep now..

端午节快乐！

Nyem~nyem~

人鬼情未了～

男：你爱我吗？
女：我爱你！
男：我也爱你！可是为什么我们不能在一起？！
女：因为我不是人。我是鬼！所以我们不可能在一起。。。
男：我不管你是人是鬼我都要一直和你在一起！
就算死我也不怕！

为了爱，连人和鬼都想打破自然条规。
可是在日常生活里所面对的是，
有种种理由让人放弃。
＞我家人不同意
＞经济能力不允许
＞我们合不来
＞我不想和你家人一块住
＞你和我朋友合不来
＞你不尊重我家人
还有很多很多的理由

究竟是爱的不够深还是因为得来太容易变得不珍惜。。。
或是认为还有更多的选择在等着吧！

^_^

Start late better than never start!